Just came back from a very 温馨 outing with a7bees (as quoted from kj haha). It was really nice to catch up with old frens, though most of them i still contact quite often la. :) I think it's really really nice that we can all chat and share like old times, that although we may not meet each other often, the feeling is still there! I always feel that the frenship btw A7Bees is always so hmm...simple and pure, it's something that i really REALLY treasure! :) So if any of you are reading this, love youuuu!! hahaha (:
I was sitting on the toilet bowl yesterday, and i was just suddenly thinking about friendships. AHAHA talk about being random :P Actually, i think that i have been rather lucky about friendships. In my different stages of life, there have been different friends by my side. Although some came and left, there are still those who came and stayed. :) To be truthful, i didn't really know how to treasure friendships when i was younger. Probably as I get older, then i start to realise the importance and preciousness of friendships. When you are young, you seem to take everything for granted, you assume that the person will always be with you, the person will always be there. As I grew older, i came to the realization that that is not the case. You need to put in efforts, you need to show your appreciation. Despite that, i can proudly say that I've always treated friends with a true heart, and many a time i get a true heart back too! :))
I had a very very good friend when i was in primary school. We would always partner each other, go for recess together, play together..I went to her house many times to play, and we even bathed together!! (Probably the first and last friend that i would do that with? haha!) I still rmb the times when we did silly things tgt, got punished tgt; she really was someone that i could talk to about anything under the sun. However, after primary 6, we got into different secondary schools, and we got separated :( We still kept in contact by calling each other at first, and i think we still met up. However, as we each got busy with our own lives, we started to distance apart, and contacted each other less and less frequently...It got to the point when I'll only msg her happy birthday once in a year, and we didn't even meet up for a loooong time. There are times when i'll think back, and I'll feel sad about how we turned out. We met up once last year, but somehow, i felt that bigggg gap between us. I guess the years have just pulled us apart further and further. I don't know if we'll ever become good friends again, but no matter what i will always treasure the friendship we once had. She seems to be doing rather well now, and i sincerely wish her all the best. And it was also a lesson for me, that friendships need to be maintained.
Now that I'm moving onto a new journey and milestone in life, i wonder if the friendships i've had in school would change. Will we, as we start meeting less and contact less, get further and further from each other? :( Sometimes, i really dread changes, and goodbyes especially. sighh, why can't good times always last forever!!! Aiya i know la, life is all about moving on, about improving ourselves, about balances... We all have to grow up someday; no use lamenting about things that we can't control right?
Let me end this post with a simple but heartfelt message to all my friends reading this! No matter who you are, thank you for being part of my life, thank you for all the memories we've had together! :)) I'm thankful for all the light you've shone into my life, no matter how dim it may be. Please bear with all my faults, we will be friends forever okay? :D
Hahahaha okay la shall stop being mushy, IT'S TIME FOR BED! SAYONARA! :)))))
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