Shall make this a short one, as I need to catch on my webcasts. Haha, have procrastinated for long enough already. That's the thing about webcasts; you have a choice not to attend lectures, or even if you go, you may have the tendency not to pay as much attention. Just because there is webcast.

I turned on my computer yesterday, purposely wanting to blog. had some thoughts floating around my mind that I wanted to note down. But, spent about an hour blog-hopping again. Ha, my nosey character gets into work. Those blogs that I came onto are really quite shocking to me. I never really believed how rampant pre-marital sex was, and how high the rates are for teenage pregnancies. I guess, all along the friends around me have not been the kind that will treat this sort of thing so lightly. At least, I couldn't tell la, haha. But when I was reading random blogs of some teenage girls, many of them were either pregnant or had kids. All of them were either my age, or one/two years younger than me. I'm really quite appalled at their courage and bravery to step into such an unknown territory. Although most of them are married, I really wonder, how much do they or their other half treasure their marriage? They are all so young, and I think most of them have stopped studying and are working instead. Is this the life that they really want? To work for the rest of their lives for the next 30 to 40 years? And with the stiff competition for jobs nowadays, how are they going to fight with all the university graduates? I really hope that they do have plans for the future, that they know what they are doing.

A few of them seem genuinely happy, but dun mind me being cynical. Will they continue to be as happy few years down the road? Some will, but I guess there will be some who will regret their decisions. Already, some of them expressed certain regrets of their actions on their blogs, but they have already chosen the road that they would not be able to turn back on. Yesterday, I was reading about this girl my age who has 2 baby girls. It is very obvious from her blog that she is not happy with her bf at all, who does not seem to bother or care enough for her. She was aware of the problem, which already existed when she had her first child. AND YET, she still went on to have a second child with her bf, when she blatantly wrote in her blog that her relationship with her bf was on the rocks. I really really wonder what is her mindset, what she is thinking. Of course, I admit that a blog might not reveal her truest feelings, and I'm only looking at her one-sided account. Probably she has other reasons that made her continue to stick with her bf, I dunno. Being single, I can't see her point of view, and I believe that there are many better guys out there, why hold onto one that is not suitable for you??

I said I wanted to keep this entry short, and I shall. Many things in this world happen for no reason, and for some things, there is really no need to ask 'why'. But I seriously give my blessings to all these young mummies out there, and hope that they will lead happy lives. In life, what is more important than to be happy and healthy? Happiness can help you overcome many obstacles. :)

and to all the ppl reading this blog, stay happy and cheerful! Start everyday day with a smile :)